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Saturday, 24 January 2026

Shipboard life in the 1920s

 

What was it like to travel to Sydney from the UK in the 1920s?

Nanny's ticket to Australia

One little scrap of paper in my father's memorabilia and a couple of internet sites gives some  insight on this.

This is a ticket for my grandmother's travel to Sydney in 1926. She purchased the third-class Orient Line ticket on the Ormond in April for £33. Together with her future mother-in-law, Mary Ann, and future brother-in-laws, Alfred and Frank, she was immigrating to Sydney and joining her fiancĂ©, James Kerr of Glasgow Scotland. He had moved there 12 months previously.

£33 buying power is £2,500 in 2025 100 years later and with inflation.  I would imagine it was pretty difficult for most people to afford the fare.

Not much was known about her background. Details of her mother, Mary McLaughlin have only just been discovered. She was known by her family to be an only child but as it turns out, she had  an illegitimate Strelley half-sisters and two half brothers. She went by the name Strelley and spent time with her father at his gym, even though it turns out she was illegitimate. She worked firstly for Saltcoasts Mission biscuits  and then for McFarlane Lang Biscuit Company as an ovens woman and lived with a relative of Macfarlane family in 1921 census. She earned extra money working at fight night events for the Strelley gym. She was able to buy her £33 ticket to Australia without anyone's help.

They applied for their passports and the four prepared for their journey to Sydney. They were travelling to London before departure, on the 29th of May, 1925, staying with Joe Valli's wife (vaudeville fame) prior to the journey.

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RMS Ormonde

The Ormond was previously a World War I 14,853 tonnes ship, now converted to a three-class passenger liner. This oil-burning steamer ran a regular service from Tilbury, London, to Australia until 1952. Its regular route went from Tilbury, London, via Gibraltar, Toulon, Naples, Port Said, Suez, Aden, Colombo, Fremantle, Adelaide, Melbourne, Burnie, Sydney and Brisbane. It was known as the RMS due to its extra role as a Royal Mail Ship. It carried post-war immigrants keen to make a new home in Australia. Generally, it had around 278 first-class, 196 second-class and 1,017 third-class passengers as it plied its way back and forward several times a year.

The ticket reveals what the third-class passenger would expect for their money. Firstly, each ticket was for either a six, eight or 10 berth cabin. It was guaranteed to carry four quarts of water per passenger per day. Presumably, this was provided for bathing and toilets as well as quality drinking water. Bedding, cabin and table requirements were provided by the ship.

What to look forward to

The ticket lists the weekly provisions supplied to each adult. These were dictated by the Board of Trade and Ministry Scale. This included

2lb 4ozs of pork, 1lb of preserved meat and 2lb 8ozs of bread or biscuits. Also listed was the required  quantity of potatoes, raisins, butter, suet, sugar, oats and  flour etc.

Third Class Dining Room Deck F

Meals were supplied in the third-class dining rooms at the following times:

8am for breakfast

1pm for dinner

5pm for Tea

8pm for supper

Breakfast consisted of porridge with milk, sausage, Irish stew, curried meat, rice, cold meat with bread, butter, jam, marmalade, tea and coffee. Dinner or lunch was served with soup, fish or boiled meat, fresh vegetables, stewed fruits, pudding, bread and butter and jam and marmalade.

Tea consisted of cold meats, pickles, salad, cakes or scones, et cetera, plus bread and butter and jam, et cetera. Supper was bread and butter, cheese and biscuits.

Dining Room Third Class Deck E

Each passenger was permitted 15 cubic feet of luggage, carried in trunks to the value of £10 unless insured for more. A 15 cubic feet is a trunk of 14 inches (L) by 35 inches (W) by 17 inches (D).

Being so far from home on this lengthy trip oh how they would have marvelled at the exotic sights along the way.  Was the trip an epic adventure expected of travellers today? Did they partake in the sun and sea air? Between meals did they use the gym, enjoy dancing, partake of shipboard sports such as  tennis and shuffleboard.

A few stories from other relatives who made the long trip.

An earlier trip by the Kerrs travelling to New Zealand resulted in a shipwreck. David Montgomery Yuill Kerr, Hannah Anderson Johnson, with their children, James, Robert, May and David left Scotland to make a new life in New Zealand in 1922. They originally left for N Z on the SS "Remuera" on 20 July 1922. It appears to have had a collision with the SS " Marengo" near Weymouth in the English Channel. The passengers were taken off the ship by the SS "Victoria"

My Gadsby family travelled with great great grandmother Selina and family Grace, Maude, Julia, Kitty, Selina, and young son William. They met up with future friends the Thurlows, and a shipboard romance ensued. They carried with them a well-thumbed copy of the “Girl's Own Annual” hundreds of pages   with stories of fashion, Australian lifestyles, cooking and memories left behind. I've often imagined my relatives and their exploits on the six-week trip with their experiences and new found friendships.

Later in the 1920s, my mother-in-law, Wynne travelled over as an eight-year-old with her six-year-old sister, Patricia under the guidance of a stewardess. One of her memories is of the residents of the Suez Canal welcoming them by lifting their dresses. To their shock, they were wearing no underwear!

 At port stops were our relatives too scared to venture ashore at exotic and unfamiliar ports?


Perhaps they were offered shells, ivory carvings, exotic foods et cetera, by the locals at docks on the way. Pieces of coral and ivory, amongst my grandparents’ memorabilia makes me think they  did gather some souvenirs on the way!

Antique Celluloid Miniature Asian Rickshaw Figures Japanese Geisha Girl, Rare Collectible Japanese celluloid miniature figurine,
Carved Ivory

May include: A white coral ornament with a complex, branching design, similar to a small tree. The coral is displayed against a blue backdrop, evoking an aquatic environment. The coral is a brilliant white.
Vintage Coral

Tuesday, 20 January 2026

Australia Day 2026-the Ford side.

An Australia Day 2025  Lunch with seafood at Yum Yum Cafe
 

I saw a suggestion a couple of years ago some family history  within an Australia Day theme. I decided to get organised to write a bit about my husband’s family coming to Australia.

On his side the Fords, Hudsons and the Cassidys all came in the second and third decades of the 1900s

My husband’s paternal grandparents Sidney Ford and Ethel Hudson came as a married couple in 1913 just as the war was about to break out in Europe, They had left from England where they both lived and had newly married. He arrived to live officially in Melbourne on 20/6/1913 on a merchant ship Makarini. He had travelled backwards and forwards before that in the Merchant Marines between 1911 and 1913. Sid’s wife Ethel Hudson who arrived heavily pregnant gave birth in Melbourne before arriving in Sydney soon after Alice was born.

James Cassidy arrived in Sydney 3/11/1927 on S.S.Hobsons Bay  

Do the the Fords and the Cassidys have Australian royalty? Heaven forbid they were convict stock. Steve is an Australian mongrel. His  relatives are largely English. Just so happened his paternal grandfather Sid, was of British origin, but born while his father worked on the Coast Guard in Donegal Island. No wonder they called him Paddy.

Did any ancestors arrive under their own financial steam?

Yep, Paddy came out on a merchant ship (he jumped ship as they say) and his wife followed. The Cassidys probably paid their own way. Travel costs may have been paid by Hendersons who were looking for workers to work in their hat factory.

How many came as singles?

James E Cassidy- grandfather  was a widower. James came on the 3rd of November 1927 leaving his motherless daughters, Winifred and Patricia back in Bury , England with relatives. The girls were reunited with their father after travelling to Australia unaccompanied under the watchful eye of a stewardess after their father met and married May Davis.

May had come to Australia in 19 September 1926 with her family from Bedworth in Warwickshire. James married the boss’ daughter!

How many came as couples?

Ethel Ford Nee Hudson arrived in December 1913 on the SS Hobsons Bay H22. She had married Sidney in England and was expecting her first baby by the time she arrived to meet up with her husband who had come across on a merchant ship. She had to disembark to give birth in Melbourne. Then came the happy reunion in Sydney with baby Alice.

Ethel's shipping documents 1913



Did one person lead the way and others followed? James E Cassidy found himself a job and married the boss's daughter. Then his little daughters Winifred and Patricia arrived in Australia in unaccompanied.

Wyn and Pat arrived on the 8th of December 1928 on the SS Orsover via Ceylon, Columbia.. May had come to Australia in 19 September 1926.

Winifred's shipping documents - travelling unaccompanied


What was the longest journey that they came to get here? They all came from England directly.

Did any make two-step migration via another place? No.

What state or colony did they arrive in? New South Wales. All were aiming for Sydney. Ethel had a short stopover in Melbourne to have her baby Alice.

Did they stay in their first state or did they move? All made their homes in Sydney, Drummoyne and Ryde.

Do you have any first Australians in your tree? No.

Were any self-employed? Having seawater in his veins Sidney  the answer is No. Plying the waters of Sydney Harbour on ferries was Sid's calling.

James fell into his job at Henderson Hats. It was a skill he brought with him from Lancashire.

What skills or occupation did they make? Does anyone still follow this occupation?

Sidney work on Sydney Ferries all his life.

Hats fell out of fashion in the 1960s and James moved on to work as a watchman at Hoover in Meadowbank. However James's daughter  Wynne did work in Hendersons before her marriage . She met her future husband, Joe, via a note in the army hat she had prepared that was issued to Joe during WWII. Patricia became a nurse.

Did any ancestors leave or go home?
No. They all loved Australia and led quite comfortable lives compared with their families back home.

Some questions for the Steve

What is your state of origin? New South Wales.

Do you still live here? Yep. Any special places you like to holiday now? See other answers. Share your favourite spot in Oz picture.

What's on your Australian holiday bucket list? I love a good railway trip and I'm sure my wife has ideas.

How do you celebrate Australia Day? Surrounded by my family, Aussie flags and after a few games eating a good barbecue.

The grandkids celebrating Australia Day 2021 in Yamba




Australia Day post (The Kerr, Strelley, Gadsby, Kelf side)

 

This year they seem to be reframing the day

 

A couple of years ago  Aussie genealogy bloggers Jennifer Jones and Jill, aka Geniaus put out a reminder of an Australia Day Geneameme that was devised by Pauleen, aka Cassmob. 

What a great idea to follow up on for this years Aussie Day. Basically it’s a questionairre about where we came from, how we ended up here and what happened.

On my side of the family, the main family names are Strelley, Gadsby, Kerr and Kelf. 

My first ancestor to come to Australia was the Harris family. Lucy Strelley, her husband, Joseph, and children were pioneers of the Swan Valley. They arrived on the Signet on the 27th of January 1833.

I have Australian royalty..….. Not. No convicts in my line but I’m following up on my grandsons’ incredible and infamous convicts in the Small family and John Cashmore Isreal.

However my 3x great grandmother's sister Sophia Allan came here with her family while her husband was the Deputy Commissariat for the NSW Colony in early 1820s. Not convicts but the Government! David Allan got into a bit of trouble with his dealings and they were recalled home.



I am an Aussie mongrel. On the whole my ancestors came to Australia from England and Scotland. There is a good bit of Irish mixed in amongst Scottish ancestors who arrived in Scotland a generation or two before that.

Did any of your ancestors arrive under their own financial steam? My Kerr ancestors looked to have paid their own way. A couple of them were even rich enough to pay passage home when Australia didn't suit them.

A few of the Gadsby men probably worked their passage on merchant ships with the rest of the family travelling together .

How many ancestors came as singles?

There were a few single men, for example, Henry Gadsby, my great great -uncle who came as a young man after the death of his parents. I suspect he was sponsored as he was a bricklayer.

My widowed great great Auntie, Jessie Smart Kerr came on her own. My maternal grandfather, Frank Kelf also came on his own. Quite some years later my great grandfather James Cross Kerr came after the war but he was paving the way for relatives to come.

Jessie Smart Kerr
James Cross Kerr's passport photo 1925


My maternal grandfather, Frank Kelf also came on his own perhaps as a result of a dysfunctional family. Funny no sooner was he here but was signing up to fight the war in Europe.

How many came as couples? Family Groups?

The Gadsbys came as a family. As I've said before, they were a big family and could have taken a cheaper /quicker trip to Canada. I'm convinced someone  helped them out of England. It may  or may not have been a royal payoff by Edward VII to get a certain woman out of the country if the rumours are true.

Did one person lead the way and others followed?

The first Kerrs to depart were a family of horse breeders to New Zealand. Sisters and half sisters came over to Sydney. More relatives arrived, lived here for a while and some  returned. Having enough money to pay for a return passage makes me doubt the myth that they were poor as church mice.

Back in the day, it was a bit of a badge of honour to have travelled on certain ships. Perhaps there was also a certain snobbery about the route they travelled Liverpool, London or elsewhere.

Did anyone make a two-step immigration? I believe all arrived in one go, but possibly one, James Gadsby, arrived via the Boer War and First World War. He didn't like what he saw with his mother's behaviour taking up with her daughter's fiance.   He himself married a divorcee and  fled to New Zealand for good.

Did they settle, remain in one state or colony? With the exception of Henry Gadsby, who started off in Queensland. Yes. We had some explorers from the Harris/ Gregory line in Western Australia and Queensland. It certainly was a land of opportunity.

Do you have any first Australians in your tree? Not that I know of, but I’ve heard a slight rumour that Joseph Strelley Harris may have fathered a line of Harris's in Western Australia. Joseph Strelley Harris developed good relationships with the Noongar people while moving sheep around Western Australia during his explorations resulting in his understanding of Indigenous fire control.

Were any of the families self-employed? Great Grandfather Thomas Gadsby brought over his bricklaying skills. His wife ran a store and most of the children started their own businesses and were quite entrepreneurial, including the women. My grandfather, James Kerr  sold fruit and veg from the back of a horse and cart, building up from one box of tomatoes, mainly because work was scarce in the Depression.

Did any of the ancestors leave Australia to go home? Yes. It looks like my great grandmother Mary Anne Kerr took a look around. and went back home shortly after arriving in Australia. She was accompanied by my great uncle, Frank, who went back to Scotland and lived there for good. 

My great grandfather and his wife MAry Ann who went back home

My step great great grandmother , Agnes Yiull Kerr did the same and returned to Scotland with her son Thomas. There’s more to this story than meets the eye- I’d love to know more.

Comment It's a pretty brave act to make this type of decision to travel half way around the world chasing a new life, jobs, land and the opportunities. It is hard to imagine. I'd love to see more advertisements and articles from relevant newspapers at the time about those who were enticed to be part of that big immigration movement out of London and England in the 1900s onwards. Some copies of old letters would be nice!

 


Now it's about me.

My state of origin is New South Wales, Sydney.

Do I still live there? Hell no, not in Sydney. Wollongong is much quieter and my suburb even quieter too. We’ve brought up a family of three daughters there who all studied at Wollongong university.

Any special place we like to holiday? We spent heaps of time in sunny Yamba on the north coast of New South Wales and lots of camping over the years on the South Coast of NSW. A little bit of history, beautiful beaches and nature.

The Grandkids with Belinda at the Kerr telegraph pole in Maclean

Studying family history makes for good holiday explorations to Glasgow, Edinburgh, Warwickshire, Derbyshire and London. Ireland and Norfolk are next.




My Australian bucket list is getting shorter, but I'd like to check out where the Harris family emigrated to in the Swan Valley in the 1830s. When they arrived, they almost starved. They made money, farmed, explored, grew wine, and after a while Lucy as a widow went back to England.

Australia Day necessities


How will I celebrate Australia Day 2026? I'll be at our holiday place in Yamba. Yamba is the home of the Yaegl people. In the past, there have been celebrations and welcoming by the local elders at Australia Day functions. Recently, these have been suspended as celebrating Australia Day has been overshadowed by Aboriginal pain about invasion. I get that there has been a change of sentiment, though in the past they have been very proud and welcoming.

Usually our family and friends gather around for swimming, cricket, barbecue and drinks.

Australia Day 26/1/2021




Monday, 19 January 2026

Too many possibilities in the Baker family but a chance find and some DNA matches crack the brick wall.

 

Sometimes everything just falls into place. We have established that Thomas Baker, my three times great grandfather, was a Sergeant in the Coldstream Guards and that he had previously been a pearl button maker in Warwickshire. See previous blog Thomas Baker 1799- From Pearl Button Maker to Coldstream Guards. 

His service was terminated due to ill health in March 1829.  (Interestingly the Coldstream Guards recently celebrated their 375th Anniversary in 2025.)

Other times there are just too many combinations to speculate on. Namely Thomas Baker marriages and deaths. Thomas is my 3 x great grandfather.

In trying to find out more I returned to the 1841 census. From this possible census document in 1841, Julia, Mary Ann, and John Baker are listed. Julia I believe  is my 2x great grandmother. Their father who retired from the Coldstream Guards is quite possibly unwell and also quite possibly widowed. This may explain why his children are living with a family in Walthamstow, Essex. The lady of the house appears to be caring for them due to their age.

The Bakers in the 1841 census


All records for Thomas Baker, upon leaving his post, call him a pearl button maker who originated from Warwickshire. You could speculate that he returns to his roots in Warwickshire or at least his children do if he is deceased. Later we find  his daughter Julia has moved north from Essex and London and is living in Dudderston, Warwickshire where she marries. Thomas is listed in Julia’s marriage certificate and appears to be still alive but maybe the father details just don’t say “deceased”. She is seen marrying Samuel Smith, a 25-year-old gasmaker from Bordersley, Warwickshire. Thomas is listed as a pearl button maker on this marriage certificate. In 1852 they have a son, Thomas born in Aston, Deritend. The marriage is short lived as Smith dies soon after.

Julia's first marriage

So far I had ……..

Thomas Baker m   Ann?

Mary Ann                                 John                                    Julia m Samuel Smith

1831-                                      1832-                           1834-

 

Sarah's marriage
Recently, I found a marriage for Sarah Baker 1927-1900 living in Deritend, Aston also. She married a widower, Martin Yates, in 1847. Her father is also Thomas Baker, a pearl button maker. Any relation?

Lo and behold, in the 1851 census, she is living with her husband, stepson, and children. Her brother John, of the 1841 census, aged 19 and a wood turner born in Windsor, also appears in this census. Yes!  I have found a sibling. Windsor we will remember from a previous blog, is the place where the Coldstream Guards had been stationed. With the addition of Sarah’s baptism, census  and potential death in Birmingham here’s the family now


Yates family 1851 census 


John Baker in the Yates household 1851 census

                                                                                   Thomas  m Mary? Ann

Sarah                                 Mary Ann               John                           Julia m Samuel Smith

1827-1900                             1831-             1832-                           1834-1914


Always with lingering doubts about whether the information I revealed in my previous blog is correct, I'm pleased to find this marriage certificate  for Sarah and the 1851 census with both Sarah and John. I enter the details onto my ancestry tree with speculation in the identifier. I park it and leave it to gather some hints, which helped me build the family tree further.

With so many options for Thomas Baker marrying various versions of Anns and no definitive idea of his death, it is likely there will be another dead ends for a while to come.



Pleasingly, after my DNA test, I had been able to match a couple of Julia's grandchildren.  i.e., my grandmother Selina's siblings and their descendants in both Australia, England, and Canada. I can narrow this down to her Greedus ( Smith-Baker ) side  relatives.



There are at least 10 DNA matches to Julia and/or Thomas Baker. Suddenly, others around the fourth cousin range emerged with some further hints from Ancestry "thru lines".  Cautiously, I flesh out Sarah Baker's tree, and more DNA matches are revealed. I'm confident I'm on the money.

Four DNA matches to Sarah Baker from two of Sarah's children have emerged on Sarah's line to add to the 10 through Julia.



Sarah and Martin Yates had at least eight children between them-




William Jesse b1848

Selina b 1850

Sarah b 1853

Charles b 1855

Rosina b 1861

Eliza b 1864

Emma  b 1865

James b 1869

DNA matches from the Yates line


One of them, William Jesse Yates 1849-1918, has DNA matches which co-match with me and my Gadsby relatives. William Jesse married Charlotte Doody.  While William and Charlotte had 10 children quite a few of his family  appears to have gone to Michigan, USA, to live. Another example of the diaspora.

DNA matches seem to be emanating from two of Sarah's children. The second is Sarah Yates 1853-1930, who married Joseph Edward Lowe. They had 12 children. I’ve explored and verified these matches.

Of Sarah and Julia’s brother John, the last we saw of him was when he was living with his sister Sarah and newly married husband back in 1851. With all the possibilities, there are too many John's and marriage options to speculate on. It's quite likely that he even left and went to Canada or America. The last I can find of Mary Ann Baker was she was possibly a servant in Middlesex in the 1851 census in St Luke's, Finsbury, but nothing else definitive there.

So excitedly, one more part of the Baker brick wall has a big crack in it. Beware of the rubble. Fiddling around with true lines with caution and DNA matches can be useful in helping to sort a brick wall. I've been able to sort some ambitious ancestry suggestions by cross-matching the dubious DNA matches with my Pro tools. For example, one that was telling me I was definitely related to another unknown relative of the Baker family, has now showed through cross-referencing with Pro Tools that the person is actually related via the Kelf family, despite the fact that this person seems to have a paper trail back to possibly the wrong Thomas Baker.

 

Tip of the Day:

Occasionally, it's necessary to start a tree, put it on Ancestry, and wait for hints. Sometimes it works, and other times there's no response. Recently, I did this with a Polish tree where I had no clue. I am being prompted with hints and gathering up information bit by bit after putting a speculative tree on Ancestry with a warning that it was definitely speculative. I did the same with the Bakers with some pleasing success but there are a lot of Thomas Baker combinations hence the importance of warning others about speculation.

 








Sunday, 21 December 2025

Accentuate the Positive 2025

Merry Christmas Genies – Time for my 2025 wrap up -13 extra stories (two are by guest author Kevin Anderson) and 70,000 plus clicks on the counter. 

My focus in 2025 was….. It seems I had a year of industry (see Protools) and a year of unexpected collaboration with Scottish relatives, Israel family relatives, and members of Polish community willing to help in a collaboration on my cousin’s stepdad. 
Henry S Martin


A Social media post I am most proud of…. When I required information on the whereabouts of some orphaned convict children, the troops rallied and sent me hints, links, information and cleared up my misconceptions. Once again with their collective expertise, they provided the answers swiftly. Thank you, Facebook pals. 

A history book I enjoyed was… “The trial of the Honorable James Stamp Sutton Cooke.” The associated trials/ convict records could have you down rabbit holes forever. His stories of bigamy, gambling, domestic violence and much more had me gasping. Memoirs of his wife, Sophia, were also a good read. “Memoirs of Sophia, Widow of James Stamp Sutton Cooke” 
Part of Sophia's story she wrote for publication in prison


I researched…. Israels, Rowbothams, Duckwor, Blocks, Bakers and Martins amongst others. 

My most valuable subscription. I paid for a ProTool subscription from Ancestry. By far the best thing I did this year was to subscribe to ProTools. I ProTooled my tree from January for about two and a half months coming up for air with pages of follow ups by about April. I was exhausted but certainly it filled in some records I had previously missed, fixed up my duplicates, errors, people with no family, and checked for problems. I haven't had time to check on the DNA side of this tool yet. 

I've continued my subscription to Newspapers.com  which has been most useful during Pro Tools work. Lately, I've subscribed to Fold3, but I think that will only be temporary as I don't find it much value. Do you? 

 I still love my Whispers App as I've done plenty of writing this year. I have to come up with a writing piece each fortnight when I'm home for my U3A writing groupMy fellow writers like my spin on family history and the antics of the ancestors. The Whisper App makes writing from a draft to final copy a dream. I did plan to write some 20th century, (post-war) stories and finish others. But I went down a few rabbit warrens this year. So instead, I wrote about families whose children went to war or were affected by it. One thing led to another and I ended up following up on a scandalous convict or two in my son-in-law's past. 

I've written a lot this year and last, and they are slowly making it into final draft for the blog. 11 blogs have made it to publication, but the research revealed much more and took a lot of time in between pro-tooling. 

I met a fourth cousin who just happens to live in Australia and not too far away. We met and swapped information. Another batch of World War One Soldiers in one family were crossed off my to-do list. 

 A useful website I found was wiki trees. After hitting upon some interesting information, I followed up on some prolific researchers who were very generous. As always, it's good to share information as it safeguards it from losses in storage boxes and disinterested relatives in the future. 

My husband was devastated when I uncovered the illegitimacy of the Duckworths. We had a laugh, filled in the blanks and followed up with what happened next. 


I'm dabbling with AI. While it sometimes leaves a lot to be desired, a tech friend suggested I translate some Polish love letters using Chat GPT. Be warned, it seems the Chat GPT likes a good love story. In our early attempts, I had to temper its exuberance. More work on this will happen during 2026. The Polish letters seem to have bred, so it may take some time to build our mystery tree. 


I'm keen to use it to transcribe some diary entries from the 1840s in Western Australia. Fingers crossed it can read it and make sense of the notes. I believe Ancestry have added some AI technology for the same task. Next year could have some interesting implications. 

A genie surprised we received was a message from someone who is likely following up on the antics of my uncle during World War II. If you follow my meaning. In answer to my cousin's question of “I wonder if there are any little Franks running around England?” - Well, yes. - It looks like they are. It seems that after the person made contact, they have ghosted us or are just not renewing their ancestry membership. Naturally I have copies of all her details / trees supplied as they recommend when you get an NPE.
 
I don't think it's anything sinister, just that she's probably worked out who fathered her or her relative from my very informative tree and blog, even if I do say so myself. 


My grandkids found me useful this year. When year four was studying convicts and year six was researching 10 pound POMS, I was away, but if you research my blog, you can find information readily to solve the homework worries. 

Sharing with my genie mates. I think the Strelley relatives have been rattling around “upstairs.” I'm gradually getting interest from the very small Scottish branch via my blog. R.I.P. Andrew Strelley. Are you stirring things up? 

A newly found Strelley relative shared copies of her great-uncle's wartime memorabilia. It helped in two stories. It proves my theory that if you are the one person who gets the photos or the memorabilia, etc., and it's not shared, it's lost to others. 
Me , Ian Strelley and Andrew when we met in Canada


The genealogist in me is despairing at the lack of information on 20th and 21st century births, deaths and marriages. A hundred years is a long time to wait in Australia, but at least I can get World War I and II records for free and access to the Trove newspaper records.

In 2026, I plan to finish lots of stories currently in draft and find a few new paths to go down. I'm still very interested in the diaspora. 

To all my Genie friends Merry Christmas and Happy New Year xx

Wednesday, 10 December 2025

Christmas at War

 

As we move into the Festive season 2025, let's reflect on our ancestors who were serving at war during the Boer War and 110 years ago during the 1914-18 First World War.

Here are three snippets.

Frederick Clayton Bateman Strelley 1883-1955. Fred served in both the Boer War and the First World War. Among his war memorabilia were relics of Christmases served in both wars.

Fred's wartime memorabilia

Fred had a brass tin with Princess Mary's head on it, in which he used to keep all of his medals.

Princess Mary's Gift Fund box containing a packet of tobacco and carton of cigarettes.
1914 Brass Box

These tins were a personal gift from the future Queen to each soldier who was serving in the British Army in Christmas 1914. Fred's wife Georgina used to polish this tin religiously and take his medals out to show the grandkids on visits to see her.

What was the Princess Mary Gift Fund 1914 box? The Princess Mary Gift Fund box is an embossed brass box that originally contained a variety of items such as tobacco and sweets. It was intended as a Christmas present to those serving at Christmas in 1914 and was paid for by the British public backed by Princess Mary.

As seen by the comment above, the Princess Mary gift fund box was a treasured possession of many veteran soldiers of the First World War, even when the original contents, usually cigarettes and rolling tobacco, had been used. The embossed brass box was airtight and made it a useful container for money, tobacco papers, and photographs, so it was often carried and treasured by the men through their wartime movements for the rest of their service.

In addition, many men carefully repacked their presents and sent them home to their wives and family. Generally, the embossed brass box contained one ounce of pipe tobacco, 20 cigarettes, a pipe, a tinder lighter, Christmas card, and photograph. An alternative gift was made available for non-smokers.

Non-smokers received the brass box, a packet of acid tablets, khaki writing case containing pencil, paper, and envelopes, together with the Christmas card and photograph of the Princess. Minority groups and dietary rules of various religious groups were also considered, and Indian Sikhs and Gurkhas received a differently packed box.

James Edward Cassidy1892-1981. James enlisted in August 1914 and would have received one of the boxes above. James' Christmas in 1915 was celebrated by a photo back to his family, which has the caption "Wounded L.F.'s Still Happy 1915." L.F.'s refers to the Lancashire Fusiliers.




James had been wounded during 1915 and was still in Gallipoli by Christmas. In 1916, they were to have taken enemy headquarters at El Arish on the coast city of Egypt’s Sinai Peninsula on Christmas Eve, but that didn't eventuate.



Peter McEwan Martin 1897-1917, someone was extremely organised in Peter McEwan Martin’s company for Christmas 1916. Elaborate cards were printed, assembled, signed, and dispatched to the relatives for Christmas 1916. This card belonged to Sheila Martin and family and is now on display at his old school.

Christmas Card From the Field

The Christmas Truce

Late on Christmas Eve 1914, the men of the British Expeditionary Force heard German troops in the trenches opposite them singing Christmas carols and patriotic songs, and saw lanterns and small fir trees along the trenches. The following day which was Christmas Day, British and German soldiers met in no man's land and exchanged gifts, took photographs, and some played impromptu games of football. After Boxing Day, it was back to business…… 

The Christmas Truce 

These little touches of Christmas spirit transcend the brutality of war and echo a hope for a brighter life.

These stories focus on remembrance, and as we reach Christmas, we hope for enduring peace in our time, while reminding us of the light and humanity of these wars of past times.

Monday, 10 November 2025

Mark Strelley Fryar - a Case of Barbed Wire Disease?

 

I've written about my relative Captain Mark Strelley Fryar 1892- 1931 before. In my eyes, he was a war hero and a good leader but others may have seen it differently with a touch of ignorance or dismay probably due in hindsight to lack of understanding of war caused neurosis.

Born in Derbyshire of a mining background he was destined to work in the family mining interests. After completing school and attending Malvern Officer Training College he had prepared to enter the mining business training up under his father, Mark Fryar at Denby and with his uncle at the Messrs Barber, Walker and Company Limited.

Mark from a 5th Bttn photo

In May 1911 he joined the 1/5th Battalion of the Sherwood Foresters (Nottinghamshire and Derbyshire Regiments).  This territorial regiment was mobilised for war service on 5/8/14 when Mark was 23. Less than 4 months after landing at Ypres he was wounded at Dickebuse. He returned to the Front.

Mark's story is recorded in "A Lack of Offensive Spirit" The 46th (North Midland) Division" by Alan MacDonald p392-4. He was captured at Gommecourt in 1916. Initially, he was missing in action after the horrific events of the Somme on the 1st of July 1916-one of the bloodiest battles in history. 

On the night of the battle ....Owing to smoke he and his Captain were separated from the rest of the Battalion. Captain Lewes was hit three times and while Fryar and his men took other action to secure their safety they needed to lay low until cover of darkness or reinforcements appeared. The Germans kept bombing them until 11am and sent an English speaking soldier to say he would take them prisoners. They were out of ammunition and by 12.30 they were being shelled by their own forces. He talked with the injured Lewes and they decided to give in asking the Germans to help them with their wounded. They would not and just looked on. They carried the semi- conscious Captain out but he died the next morning. Then... He was sent to a POW camp or two during the next few years of the war.

Initially his mother, Louisa received word saying “ I'm afraid I can give you very little hope.”



 A month later she received a telegram saying he was a prisoner of war at Gutorsloh, Germany. Mark’s Prisoner of War transfer cards are marked with red circles indicating multiple escape attempts. He moved between Custria  (Fort Zorndorf) and Schwarmstedt camps (30 days in the cells for escaping) then to Schweidnitz where after several months he escaped with 23 others and a partner named Bush. The upshot of this was that he got 78 kilometers away but was caught taking a train.
A Red Cross Transfer  record- the red circle indicates he is prone to escape


The prisoners involved in the Schweidnitz tunnel escape were taken to Holzminden POW camp. A few months later he was court-martialed by the Germans for escaping by the tunnel and for forging passports used in the escape. (He served 47 days in the cells for escaping)

Like many of his fellow captives Mark was eligible for internment in Holland. Having been captured in 1916 he was entitled to be interned after two years captive to a neutral country like Holland. Here they would be bound to conform to laws and regulations for the rest of the war by their personal honour and good behaviour “on parole”.

Authorities were becoming aware of “barbed wire disease”, a new medical phenomenon of war. About 10% of prisoners made a concerted effort to escape, and about three times that attempted breakouts.

Military staff POWs felt a deep disillusionment, enhanced by the solitary confinement for punishment, overcrowding and harsh living conditions. They were going stir crazy. It was considered that men captured for more than two years would be suffering from barbed wire disease and should be offered internment in a neutral country. Many of his fellow prisoners refused this eligibility because one, it meant they had to sit out the war and two, they did not get to escape to fight another day. Many wanted to return to their unit to fight or fly again.

Even though the officers were able to enjoy orchestras, workshops, sports, and theatre, the physical response to being behind barbed wire for prolonged stretches of time would send the prisoners stir-crazy. Solitary confinement that was issued after the prison break would further deepen their disillusionment. The Hague Convention states that prisoners must be treated humanely. Officers were not put to work. They were to be treated with the same board, lodging, and clothing as the troops who captured them.

German officers often violated these conventions. The Commandant at Holzminden, Niemeyer, for example, was well known for the way prisoners were harshly treated. The men survived because of Red Cross parcels even though 1 in 5 were lost in transit! Letters home show that Mark asked for his mother to send him a parcel from Fortnum and Mason. I wonder if it ever arrived.

He became a Captain during his incarceration and would take his role seriously writing reports when necessary .


Mark believed that the delay in going to Holland was caused by the Germans dragging out the court-martial for their part in the Schweidnitz escape. This delayed his and others' transition to Holland and he believed it was in breach of the Hague Convention Agreement. And he let the management know via a letter to the Dutch Ambassador requesting that the British Government investigate the delay. Family believed he was depressed by this delay as letters back home revealed during 1918. We now know this was probably part of the psychological distress that Prisoners of War  suffered. It is also known that internees  suffered the same effect.


Part of the military code was that you were expected to escape whether English, NZ, Aussie or Canadian. Since the other big escape from Holzminden the Germans were more harsh. Another of Fryar’s report from the Officer’s Camp at Holzminden was about the random shooting of two Aussies, Lt Alexander Wallace Couston 10th Battalion AIF and 2nd Lt Cyril Boyd Fenton RFC in Oct 1918. https://schweidnitzpowcampwwi.blogspot.com/2021/04/another-escape-remembered-anzac-day-2021.html As I said before, I liked his leadership. It seemed he created quite a stir. He’s not writing his report to condemn the men but as a condemnation of the behaviour of the Germans during the men’s escape.


He was eventually interned in late October 1918. Mark went to Holland with fellow escapees Asquith, Burrow, Bush, Moorhead, Patton and Murphy.  Most were repatriated on the 26th of November 1918 after the Armistice was reached.

Officer's statements were obtained upon repatriation. These explain the circumstances of their capture and recapture. Many of Mark's, part of Mark's capture statement describes his capture while serving with the 5th Sherwood Foresters.

His experience of war made it difficult to return to normal life and his father's colliery business. In 1915 his uncle had died and this put more pressure on Mark to assist in the business. All the blasting and confined spaces involved triggered what we now know to be PTSD. Local rumors were around and perhaps some  misunderstood as to why and how  he was captured, escaped, recaptured and treated after the tunnel escape.

Perhaps a little misunderstanding as to why he was court-martialled by the Germans and not the English, may have persisted in his local village and family. In April 1919 he had received word that his statements regarding his capture by the enemy had been investigated and it was considered no blame at all on him in the matter.


 After the war he could not settle and returning to the colliery meant claustrophobia. Anxiety caused by the constant blasting in the mine unsettled him. He was given time to recover by his father but in the British way after 12 months he was expected to pull himself together and get back to work. This caused friction with his family assisted by persistent rumors about his capture and court martial.

Post-war mental illness was probably exacerbated by his lack of work and idleness. Rumours persisted and he was known to drink too much. Some incidences occurred unbecoming of the gentleman he was.

In 1924, he was acquitted of breaking into a garage at Stubbington and stealing five motor tyres and two tins of petrol. He denied he was the person seen leaving the garage at midnight, and that the evidence was circumstantial.

Acquittal- Gloucester Citizen 8/10/1924

 In 1926 he was charged with being in the Wesleyan Church after dark for unlawful purposes having forced the door. The judge satisfied that it was a drunken episode and in exchange for damages and expenses Mark was accordingly discharged.

More trouble - Mansfield Reporter 18/6/1926

At age 39 in 1931, he died- a bachelor. He had been living between Long Bennington and Denby and after a visit to the pub was involved in a car accident while on a cycle. He died of head and internal injuries   

He was buried with military honours.

Notes from a talk given by Jill Sparrow to a local group

Such a shame that, in hindsight Mark was probably suffering undiagnosed trauma. We now understand more about these war neuroses, probably initially caused by shell shock from his part in the Somme battle and exacerbated by barbed wire disease. Studies show that mortality rates of POWs in the 1920s and 30s were five times that of other veterans. An added cost of war.

Remembrance Day 2025

Lest we Forget






Mark's grave in Denby with his sister Molly