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Friday, 5 March 2021

Mums in the Kitchen at Carlingford

 

As it’s International Women’s Day 2021, this year I pause to reflect on cooking through my life time- in particular the Carlingford mums. I cannot remember my grandmother or my Nanny’s cooking but I remember my mother and her journey through domesticity.

I’m pretty sure she was a Commonsense Cookery type of girl as my mum presented me with an updated version of the cookery Bible when I married in 1977. As a kid I like to cook and I watch and sometimes cringed as her specialty was whipped up yet again for weekend visitors or Sunday picnics buts that’s the way it was.

 

The date and orange ring cake recipe

The school lunches were sultana cupcakes… every week. Oh what I would’ve given for a marshmallow biscuit or an iced Vovo at the time. I am ungrateful!  Assorted creams biscuits were rare at our house but the ring cake tin turned out plenty of date and orange cakes. Of course they were housed in the newly purchased Tupperware container- a must for every kitchen.

We were a  Sunday roast after church family.  Lamb roast and then from the days of the frozen chook that was the popular roast for families. Moving away from the “norm” wasn’t done. When I’m first married I learnt what other families had such as about plum pudding,  leg ham and mince pies at Christmas.

 In the early days of living in Carlingford, shopping was done by public transport from the Eastwood shops. There were some home deliveries of bread, milk and eggs and everything came into the house once a week via the weekly shop.

Looking through Mum’s old cookbooks I note they were hand written collections and attributed to Mary, Joy, Betty etc. The faithful exercise books were filled with glued or sticky taped can labels, recipe flyers and clippings from the New Idea, Women’s Day or snippets from the Sunday paper.

They reflected trends and advancements entering the kitchen. Cheesecakes were now taking over from Trifle with the you beaut springform pan.  Then came the pizza tray and the invention of all inventions- the loose bottom Quiche pan . This had the mums cooking “foreign” food and reaching new heights in the neighbourhood cookery prowess.

As years wore on meat and three veg dinners became “veal cordon bleu”, Crown Roast and seafood crêpes finished off with Gateau Ganache ot Tarte Tatin. In the exercise book I see Flo’s pumpkin scones recipe and Fresh Fruit Flans became the rage. Who can forget the Peach Kuchen made with Golden Butter Cakemix?


 

Over the years mum and her friends contributed to the fundraiser successes the “Saint Gerard’s Catholic School Recipe Book” or the “Our Lady Help of Christians Epping Womens' Auxiliary Cookbook”. All the mums contributed their specialty Casserole, Mornay or something that ended with “mexicano” if it had the slightest of taste other than salt and pepper.

 

The ladies all banded together for this school fundraiser

Food processes and the kitchen whiz were popular in the late 70s and the resulting dips for  parties replaced Jatz savouries and squares of cheese and pickled onions on sticks. By then kitchens also supported electric knives, mix masters, stick blenders and crockpots. Mum loved to stuff a breadstick with yummy feelings, freeze and slice them for parties and her  triple layer sandwiches were to die for.

When my husband came along he loved her experimental style compared with his mother‘s chops and  bacon. His eyes glowed at Layered Meatloaf with gravy and Beef Bourguignon.  

As years progressed she in turn collected recipes from me, my sister and incoming in-laws.  

Did I mention that it was very mod to  cook with wine or garlic?  Later in the eighties the microwave became a popular must have in the kitchen (it took a while to get the cooking tips right) but so handy for the newly working mum.

 The back  page of her recipe book features the old ginger beer plant. Who can remember feeding the ginger beer plant and all the antics of the exploding bottles? Now it would be a recipe for  concocting Gin cocktails in the Thermomix.

 

Recipes were sourced from newspapers and packaging and word of mouth for the ginger beer plant!

My Mum, Marlene Kerr died in 1992. Her last recipe was the Spinach Dip in the Cob Loaf.  Has it really been around that long?

 

The ingredients of the spinach dip- mix together and fill a hollowed out cobb loaf

Happy International Women’s Day mums of Carlingford past and present.  Keep following the trends. xxx

Friday, 1 January 2021

2020… I’ve never been feeling more at home.

 


In a year that’s seen my pjs wear out and my garbage bin go out more than I have. I feel it's been a mixed blessing. More time to research, chillout, explore new habits and hobbies, take on projects.

Here’s a round up of the Positives of family history journey 2020.

An elusive ancestor found.  Where did Emily Purcell come from? Still don’t know but we found her step father and step siblings  on the Barnado’s records for her children as next of kin.   Tiny steps…

A great newspaper article found. Actually I didn’t find it  as it found me. A lovely lady transcriber from Devon, UK sent me an interesting article she had just transcribed. She followed it up with the whole family saga. Another story of poverty, slums, child mortality, ill health, alcoholism and strength in adversity for children of the whole sorry tale. Mary Elizabeth Pengelly 

A Geneajourney I took. Who went anywhere? Besides researching and following up on my trips to Edinburgh and Ferniehurst Castle in 2019. I developed a few theories and I have lists of places to explore soon.

The Kerrs of Ferniehurst…finding the links to the UlsterScots

Tracking Down the Edinburgh Relatives 

An important record found.  More importantly a record that was shared and an email I followed up on at the start of Covid. This began a collaboration with other reseachers trying to piece together an untold story of 24 WWI POW tunnelers who escaped from Schweidnitz Pow camp on 17th March 1918.  Continuous emails, photos and records in the inbox all hours of the day and night from 4 countries. I felt loved and I had a project to keep me busy.

A newly found family member shared….In cleaning up my records for my GG grandfather’s sister Elizabeth Kerr something told me to do a record search under the name of Revington (her first married name) Up popped an additional seven children not previously known about who were born (and died) by different fathers between censuses. Unfortunately, most died in early weeks or before 5 years old- victims of childhood illness, poverty and cold.   Deserted wives had it tough. Only her first and last child were to legitimate husbands. A further child was known about.  Had to share this incredible story which came about through an angel nudge to do a search. Elizabeth Lizzy Kerr Revington


 

A blog I was particularly proud of has breed. It’s become a blog of its own.  After becoming part of the POW research group I researched the Australian/ NZ POWs involved. As ANZAC Day approached I wrote a short post on each of them. Anzac Daytribute- Schweidnitz POWCamp https://schweidnitzpowcampwwi.blogspot.com/2020/10/anzac-day-2020-remembering-schweidnitz.html

 The blog was shared to spark new interest. This became an explanation to new comers to the research and project and then became the beginning of a standalone Blog called……... Now I’ve got enthusiastic writers standing in line to tell the story of their relatives, shared POW camp photos and the story of the escape.  From little things big things grow. Schweidnitz POW escapes and Escapades 

 

A new piece of technology mastered……In a year of staying at home new technology was flying at us. I’ve improved my skills at Dropbox, Zoom, Messenger, Snip tool, Excel and more.

My Heritage introduced me to a “colouriser” App and Family Search got me in with a tool for comparing faces on photos.

I became the expert on e-commerce for my Rotary group … just sayin’

I signed up to The National Archives (UK)  and uploaded lots of records for free. One sunny side of Covid.

A Geneaevent/ blogpost  I learnt something new from.  Thankyou to all those who arranged webcasts and podcasts sharing news and information on DNA, Ancestry, search techniques and Australian records. I always loved joining in and feeling the rlove from other enthusiasts.  

A DNA discovery I made.  Ancestry changed our ethnicity again in July 2020

Steve      45%                        English                         26%          Robyn                                              

                 28%                        Ireland                         24%

                 19%                       Scotland                       36%

                   8%                        Wales                              3%

                   2%                       Norway                        11%                                                                                                                                                                                     

Wait- where did that Scotland and Wales come from for Steve?  Curiouser and curiouser!

I taught a geneamate to put together his tree and begin his DNA journey. As far as I can see the only way we are connected is that one of my husband’s DNA matches put him on to me “ as you both live in Australia”

…….and I introduced my sister to Ancestry.com. 

Really, she was just checking on my findings and within minutes she said “ I see why you got addicted!”

A brickwall I demolished…. Earlier this year a person contacted me because I had “a person of interest” on my tree. Stories of bigamy, remarriage, another desertion followed after a collaborative effort of finding records in England, Scotland and Australia. Then I remembered I had her half cousins’ email addresses. It might not have ended well…. Yes there were tears and trepidation but  photos and memories have been exchanged.

I discovered a new site full of free records.  If you’ve got POW relatives from WWI you’ve got to look up the records in the International Committee of the Red Cross. Learn all about prisoner transfers, accounts, prisoner letters etc.  Grandeguerre.icrc.org  

2020 was a good time for reading…. I read books about POW escapes, prisoner exit interviews and even one about Hugenots. 


 

My favourite books were the two volumes of my blogs which my wonderful daughters had published for Mothers Day. All my researched stories in print!  Its impressive and a great read even if I do say so myself.

It was finally exciting to “meet” Suzie  a mysterious Murphy cousin from Chicago. We hooked up courtesy of a great phone plan for a couple of hours talking about all things Murphy, DNA, Covid and what an idiot Trump is. 


 

To finish off the year my POW research group had a transglobal drinks session via Messenger. Genealogy done differently. Different time zones meant we met (simultaneously)on different days of the week and different times of the day. The Southern researchers from Australia and NZ had to content ourselves with morning coffee while the others got to drink Whiskey and red wine.

Looking ahead In a year when museums, libraries and research centres were closed we didn’t do too badly. Travel was abandoned and the world slowed down and reassessed. Hopefully this year my family and extended family took time to refocus and chill out.

I missed interactions and dinners with kids and grandkids but hopefully the “houseparty games”, scavenger hunts, Messenger events, and extra phone calls have created memories.

Hopefully there are no new little people to add to the tree called “rona” ” tina”  or “iso”